Dear 268 Let’s Talk
I have a problem. There is a woman employed at a local bank in Antigua who just will not leave me alone.
I went into the financial institution for a loan and she and I developed a friendly relationship. She really pushed to get me that loan because I don’t think I qualified 100%.
I appreciated that and when I finally got the loan, I gifted her some money. She refused to take it because she said she was only doing her job. I agreed. A few weeks later I receive a WhatsApp message on my phone from a strange number.
It was the woman at the bank. She said she pulled my number from my loan file which I found was unethical. However, I didn’t mind. We started texting each other but it made me a little uncomfortable.
She asked me to visit her house which I refused. It’s not like I don’t think she’s attractive but I am already in a serious relationship. But she has become a nag.
I blocked and deleted her but she seems to have a zillion numbers. I don’t know what to do because it’s affecting my relationship at home.
I told her if she doesn’t stop, I will report her to the bank and tell them that she stole my private cell number from my file and is now stalking me. But times are hard and I don’t want anyone to be unemployed because of me.
What should I do?
Bankers Obsession
Dear Banker’s Obsession
Based on the sequence of your letter, I am beginning to think that you may not be the only victim of this game by this loan officer however I could be wrong.
Whichever way, it is unethical for any company to use the information of a client for their personal use. This could in fact turn out to be more serious than just an obsession.
If you feel that you have reached the end of your rope where this matter is concerned then no one can fault you if you report this to the financial institution in question and also the police
Good luck
Nah bro don’t report the woman. Try hook her up with a buddy . Or stop respond.
Send me her number. I’ll message her.
Send me her number and I’ll try to resolve this issue
Do not jeopardize her job. Send her to me. I kno how to change her mind from you.
Lol I never low myself like that yet she really desperate 😂😂😂
Sir. Just set your woman pan she and you will get result. First make sure you tell you woman the truth the whole truth
You were not qualified for the loan yet you accepted it bit never saw it as unethical. Isn’t that strange of you?
I’m certain that you used convincing words to her to make sure that you got the loan . Did you think of your partner at that time? Certainly not. You entertained her from the beginning although,you have a woman in your life. That also isn’t acceptable therefore, stop blaming this woman for her behavior and take responsibility for your actions. If you ever report this woman to her boss, your relationship will crumble like an ancient wall because you were never honest the day you asked for the loan.